As the triangle shows, change can begin from any of the four positions, and with consistency, the other changes will follow. For example, one might make an underlying decision to stop spanking their child and to send them in a timeout instead. With that, the child's attitude might become more disciplined as opposed to violence, and the mother might speak on his behavior differences. Today, many people will express the power in changing one's narrative (or speech) by looking at negative situations benefits or pros, making it easier to manage them while reacting in a more healthy way. They are not only changing how they talk about things but how their behavior will be affected based off their decision to change their attitude.